1. Pray for the success of the church without being hypocritical. 2. Say Christ and His kingdom are first in their lives. 3. Say they are made stronger by absence. 4. Say they glorify God by their neglect. 5. Blame anyone else if the affairs of the church do not please them. 6. Criticize if the church does not seem to grow as it should. 7. Have any assurance that God is pleased with their actions.